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How To Master The G-Spot
By: David Van Arrick
Hello all you happy purveyors of sexual pleasures!
This is your ole buddy and mentor David Van Arrick
here to share some more pure gleaming gold nuggets
of sexual know how that will turn you into a veritable
King of the Orgasmic Mountain!
Being a bonafied "Sex Expert" means that you're going
to get people asking you questions about sex.
I love getting good questions, and when I do get them
I love to answer them in a public forum so that everyone
can benefit from the answers.
Now For our Question of the Day... and boy is it a good one!
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Edward Writes...
"David, you're one of the few guys I know who puts his
lover's pleasure before his own. I was wondering about
3 things:
1. I have some trouble getting anything substantial
from the G-spot when OBVIOUSLY you DO NOT, any thoughts?
2. The Deep Spot: stimulate the front, the back of it,
or both, how's it worked for you?
3- I like to 'Churn' a woman (move in a circular motion
while DEEP inside of her, i.e. churning the butter); it
keeps ME from Cumming and yet DRIVES HER WILD. Have YOU
ever done anything like this, and if so, how's it worked
for you? And, if not, WHY NOT?
THANKS!"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Edward,
Space does not allow for me to answer all of your questions
but for now let's talk about the G-spot.
There are a few secrets to making the G-spot work that most
men don't understand.
(By the way these concepts are also true for the Deep spot
as well!)
The G-spot works for me all the time and has my women
orgasming so hard they curl up in fetal position shuddering
and gasping as their body is racked by wave after wave of
mind-blowing vaginal contractions that rock them to the
very core of their being whenever I use it!
Why?
Because I cheat!
I stack the deck in such a way that her having a G-spot
orgasm is as inevitable as it is irresistible!
The reason most folks can't get it to work is because they
don't understand under what conditions a woman is most
likely to have a G-spot orgasm in the first place.
There are several major keys you need to know in order to
absolutely insure a woman has a G-spot orgasm and two of those
master keys are...
Timing and Sexual Tension...
Now I am assuming here that you already know how to find the
G-spot. The biggest factor in giving a woman a G-spot orgasm
is really timing.
Although timing is the biggest factor, it's definitely not
the only one, but let’s talk about timing for a bit.
The best time to give a woman a G-spot orgasm is when her
G-spot is swollen and active as a result of her becoming
sexually aroused?
When is the G-spot most likely to be swollen and sexually
activated? To the point where you can go for the G-spot
orgasm?
Immediately after she has had at least two clitoral orgasms!
Here is why.
While it is possible to give a woman a G-spot orgasm without
giving her a clitoral orgasm first, it generally takes much
longer that way.
The G-spot takes much more time and stronger stimulation to
reach its climaxing point. In fact unless you're gifted with a
natural touch and the patience of a saint you're more likely to
give up in frustration before she makes it to orgasm.
Multiple clitoral orgasms make a woman more and more physically
responsive to sexual stimulation... in other words...
The more she cums, the more likely it is that she's going to
keep cumming!
It's easy to test. When you begin making love to your woman
feel her G-spot.
Notice how swollen it is.
Give her a couple of clitoral orgasms through oral stimulation
or fingering and notice how much more her G-spot is swollen
afterward.
The more swollen the G-spot becomes the closer and easier it
will be for her to have a good strong G-spot orgasm. That of
course begs the question...
How you make sure she has at least two good strong clitoral
orgasms?
The single biggest key to giving her a clitoral orgasm or any
orgasm for that matter is...
SEXUAL TENSION!
You have got to build the sexual tension within in her to the point
where she's ready to go absolutely mad with lust and desire for
you!
Once you can get her to the point where every nerve and pleasure
receptor in her body is screaming for sexual release and you're
the only one who can give it to her... she will literally
orgasm for you twice as hard in half the time!
Now when you do that for your woman, you automatically activate a
principle I call
Sexual Reciprocity...
When you give a woman that kind of experience she will literally
work herself into frenzy, move heaven and earth, and happily
surrender herself to what ever you desire just to please you in
return! It's an awesome spectacle to behold when a woman completely
surrenders herself looks up and at you and just says...
"HAVE ME!"
(I never get tired of hearing that!)
Giving your woman a G-spot orgasm using the Rule of Three Method
will take you from a sexual zero to a sexual hero practically
in just one night!
Most women are lucky to get one clitoral orgasm a night and
most women have never experienced a G-spot orgasm but after
they do... they just can't get enough of you!
The key to orgasms is simple ladies and gentlemen...Sexual Tension!
The more you build it within her the longer stronger and more
fulfilling your sexual life will be!
So If you really want to have the inside scoop on all the naughty
tasty and oh so effective sexual secrets that will make you the
ultimate alpha male in the bedroom, and have women drooling to sleep
with you time after time because you're the only man she knows who
can turn her into a quivering gasping undulating puddle of
multi-orgasmic happiness any time you choose then by all means
download your copy Secret Orgasm Tips!
You can download you safe secure and discrete copy here:
Download Your Copy Here!
Don't waste another minute floundering around in the bedroom.
Get your own Secret Orgasm Tips Course today.
All the Best!
David Van Arrick
Hello all you happy purveyors of sexual pleasures!
This is your ole buddy and mentor David Van Arrick
here to share some more pure gleaming gold nuggets
of sexual know how that will turn you into a veritable
King of the Orgasmic Mountain!
Being a bonafied "Sex Expert" means that you're going
to get people asking you questions about sex.
I love getting good questions, and when I do get them
I love to answer them in a public forum so that everyone
can benefit from the answers.
Now For our Question of the Day... and boy is it a good one!
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Edward Writes...
"David, you're one of the few guys I know who puts his
lover's pleasure before his own. I was wondering about
3 things:
1. I have some trouble getting anything substantial
from the G-spot when OBVIOUSLY you DO NOT, any thoughts?
2. The Deep Spot: stimulate the front, the back of it,
or both, how's it worked for you?
3- I like to 'Churn' a woman (move in a circular motion
while DEEP inside of her, i.e. churning the butter); it
keeps ME from Cumming and yet DRIVES HER WILD. Have YOU
ever done anything like this, and if so, how's it worked
for you? And, if not, WHY NOT?
THANKS!"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Edward,
Space does not allow for me to answer all of your questions
but for now let's talk about the G-spot.
There are a few secrets to making the G-spot work that most
men don't understand.
(By the way these concepts are also true for the Deep spot
as well!)
The G-spot works for me all the time and has my women
orgasming so hard they curl up in fetal position shuddering
and gasping as their body is racked by wave after wave of
mind-blowing vaginal contractions that rock them to the
very core of their being whenever I use it!
Why?
Because I cheat!
I stack the deck in such a way that her having a G-spot
orgasm is as inevitable as it is irresistible!
The reason most folks can't get it to work is because they
don't understand under what conditions a woman is most
likely to have a G-spot orgasm in the first place.
There are several major keys you need to know in order to
absolutely insure a woman has a G-spot orgasm and two of those
master keys are...
Timing and Sexual Tension...
Now I am assuming here that you already know how to find the
G-spot. The biggest factor in giving a woman a G-spot orgasm
is really timing.
Although timing is the biggest factor, it's definitely not
the only one, but let’s talk about timing for a bit.
The best time to give a woman a G-spot orgasm is when her
G-spot is swollen and active as a result of her becoming
sexually aroused?
When is the G-spot most likely to be swollen and sexually
activated? To the point where you can go for the G-spot
orgasm?
Immediately after she has had at least two clitoral orgasms!
Here is why.
While it is possible to give a woman a G-spot orgasm without
giving her a clitoral orgasm first, it generally takes much
longer that way.
The G-spot takes much more time and stronger stimulation to
reach its climaxing point. In fact unless you're gifted with a
natural touch and the patience of a saint you're more likely to
give up in frustration before she makes it to orgasm.
Multiple clitoral orgasms make a woman more and more physically
responsive to sexual stimulation... in other words...
The more she cums, the more likely it is that she's going to
keep cumming!
It's easy to test. When you begin making love to your woman
feel her G-spot.
Notice how swollen it is.
Give her a couple of clitoral orgasms through oral stimulation
or fingering and notice how much more her G-spot is swollen
afterward.
The more swollen the G-spot becomes the closer and easier it
will be for her to have a good strong G-spot orgasm. That of
course begs the question...
How you make sure she has at least two good strong clitoral
orgasms?
The single biggest key to giving her a clitoral orgasm or any
orgasm for that matter is...
SEXUAL TENSION!
You have got to build the sexual tension within in her to the point
where she's ready to go absolutely mad with lust and desire for
you!
Once you can get her to the point where every nerve and pleasure
receptor in her body is screaming for sexual release and you're
the only one who can give it to her... she will literally
orgasm for you twice as hard in half the time!
Now when you do that for your woman, you automatically activate a
principle I call
Sexual Reciprocity...
When you give a woman that kind of experience she will literally
work herself into frenzy, move heaven and earth, and happily
surrender herself to what ever you desire just to please you in
return! It's an awesome spectacle to behold when a woman completely
surrenders herself looks up and at you and just says...
"HAVE ME!"
(I never get tired of hearing that!)
Giving your woman a G-spot orgasm using the Rule of Three Method
will take you from a sexual zero to a sexual hero practically
in just one night!
Most women are lucky to get one clitoral orgasm a night and
most women have never experienced a G-spot orgasm but after
they do... they just can't get enough of you!
The key to orgasms is simple ladies and gentlemen...Sexual Tension!
The more you build it within her the longer stronger and more
fulfilling your sexual life will be!
So If you really want to have the inside scoop on all the naughty
tasty and oh so effective sexual secrets that will make you the
ultimate alpha male in the bedroom, and have women drooling to sleep
with you time after time because you're the only man she knows who
can turn her into a quivering gasping undulating puddle of
multi-orgasmic happiness any time you choose then by all means
download your copy Secret Orgasm Tips!
You can download you safe secure and discrete copy here:
Download Your Copy Here!
Don't waste another minute floundering around in the bedroom.
Get your own Secret Orgasm Tips Course today.
All the Best!
David Van Arrick
How To Make Sure She Never Fakes Her Orgasms With You!
By: David Van Arrick
Hello friends,
Today’s article covers an issue that haunts men
who take their skills as a lover very seriously
(which is most men by the way).
In fact I have discovered that when it comes to
the topic of sex most men are actually more
uncomfortable than women when discussing it with
the opposite sex.
I’m not talking about guys talking smack in the
locker room. I am talking about real, honest,
sexual communication with the opposite gender.
But that is a topic for another time. Today’s
Question is from Andy who writes…
QUESTION FROM A READER>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Thanks for your briefing about sex, orgasm and
related. My Question is -- How do you know that
a woman is orgasming (I mean 100% sure)
Andy
MY RESPONSE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi Andy.
How do you know that a woman is orgasming I mean
100% sure?
Hmmm… let me count the ways.
Signs of Impending Orgasm...
As she gets closer and closer her vaginal muscles
will tense more and more. Her mental focus will
be on the source of sexual stimulation, her
extraneous body movements may decrease or increase
(usually decrease) her eyes will close, her face
and chest will flush, the muscles around her
vaginal opening will clench tighter and tighter.
The muscles in her abdomen, pelvis, hips and thighs
will tense, her back will arch and she may thrust
her hips forward toward the source of the stimulation,
and finally usually right before she climaxes there
will be what I call " the calm before the storm" just
before she goes over the edge of climax she will
completely freeze up this may last anywhere from one
to five seconds after which all of her muscles
spontaneously relax and she becomes lost in wave
after wave of orgasmic release.
Some women will make lots of noise, some will be
absolutely silent, some will moan, some will even purr.
The verbal responses to orgasm are highly individual
and therefore not always reliable. The physiological
indicators I outlined above are very reliable. Plus
when you learn the one orgasm women can not fake you
will always know that you got her off.
It’s easy to think your woman is orgasming if you only
pay attention to the sounds that she makes.
Remember a master key to being a true sexual master
is the ability to read and interpret what is going
on with your partner’s body in ways most men truly
have no clue about.
It takes some time and a bit of practice but when you
finally begin to notice the indicators I am describing
they become like a sexual GPS that will tell you exactly
what you need to be doing and how to do it in the way
that fits your woman the best and that’s a level of
sexual skill every woman lusts for in a man and it makes
you a veritable god among ants!
Don’t take my word for any of this. Take the techniques
I have given you and use them on your women and prove
to yourself just how powerful and unstoppable they are!
Besides the homework is a heck of a lot of fun!
If you're really serious about pleasing your woman
better than any man ever has (or ever will), then you
really need to check out my special course "Secret
Orgasm Tips."
Once you learn my secrets, you'll never have to worry
about a woman EVER faking with you again!
Click Here To Download Your Copy Now!
All the Best,
David Van Arrick
Hello friends,
Today’s article covers an issue that haunts men
who take their skills as a lover very seriously
(which is most men by the way).
In fact I have discovered that when it comes to
the topic of sex most men are actually more
uncomfortable than women when discussing it with
the opposite sex.
I’m not talking about guys talking smack in the
locker room. I am talking about real, honest,
sexual communication with the opposite gender.
But that is a topic for another time. Today’s
Question is from Andy who writes…
QUESTION FROM A READER>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Thanks for your briefing about sex, orgasm and
related. My Question is -- How do you know that
a woman is orgasming (I mean 100% sure)
Andy
MY RESPONSE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi Andy.
How do you know that a woman is orgasming I mean
100% sure?
Hmmm… let me count the ways.
Signs of Impending Orgasm...
As she gets closer and closer her vaginal muscles
will tense more and more. Her mental focus will
be on the source of sexual stimulation, her
extraneous body movements may decrease or increase
(usually decrease) her eyes will close, her face
and chest will flush, the muscles around her
vaginal opening will clench tighter and tighter.
The muscles in her abdomen, pelvis, hips and thighs
will tense, her back will arch and she may thrust
her hips forward toward the source of the stimulation,
and finally usually right before she climaxes there
will be what I call " the calm before the storm" just
before she goes over the edge of climax she will
completely freeze up this may last anywhere from one
to five seconds after which all of her muscles
spontaneously relax and she becomes lost in wave
after wave of orgasmic release.
Some women will make lots of noise, some will be
absolutely silent, some will moan, some will even purr.
The verbal responses to orgasm are highly individual
and therefore not always reliable. The physiological
indicators I outlined above are very reliable. Plus
when you learn the one orgasm women can not fake you
will always know that you got her off.
It’s easy to think your woman is orgasming if you only
pay attention to the sounds that she makes.
Remember a master key to being a true sexual master
is the ability to read and interpret what is going
on with your partner’s body in ways most men truly
have no clue about.
It takes some time and a bit of practice but when you
finally begin to notice the indicators I am describing
they become like a sexual GPS that will tell you exactly
what you need to be doing and how to do it in the way
that fits your woman the best and that’s a level of
sexual skill every woman lusts for in a man and it makes
you a veritable god among ants!
Don’t take my word for any of this. Take the techniques
I have given you and use them on your women and prove
to yourself just how powerful and unstoppable they are!
Besides the homework is a heck of a lot of fun!
If you're really serious about pleasing your woman
better than any man ever has (or ever will), then you
really need to check out my special course "Secret
Orgasm Tips."
Once you learn my secrets, you'll never have to worry
about a woman EVER faking with you again!
Click Here To Download Your Copy Now!
All the Best,
David Van Arrick
How To Kiss Like A Moviestar
By: David Van Arrick
Hello my care free and courageous connoisseurs
of creative kissing and countless carnal pleasures,
Tis I! Your buddy, the one and only David Van Arrick!
I'm back to share some more outstanding insights
into the world of all things erotic, carnal and
ultimately orgasmic.
Now the interesting thing you will discover as we
journey together on the forbidden path to true sexual
mastery is that the path itself has many seemingly
unrelated tangents and offshoots -- twists and turns
that sometimes seem to have no direct relation to the
forbidden arts of sexual mastery as most folks would
understand them but have faith and pay attention
because the connections often become excitingly
immediately apparent as time goes on...
However...
Today's installment is not one of those cases!
In fact far from being obscure this particular post
concerns one of my very favorite topics --- Kissing!
If your kissing game sucks, you're probably not going
to get any further in the course of making love to a
woman because many many women judge how good a lover
you are by the way you kiss her the very first time.
Although many women are more than willing to kiss you
a second time in the hopes you just had an off moment,
the bottom line is if your kiss can't make her toes
curl, buckle her knees and have her heart pounding
and racing in her chest like a hyper-active jackhammer,
your probably going to find yourself immediately shoved
into the "love-dud" category or the Joe-average lover
slot to say the least.
That's not a good place to be, believe me.
Well I don't know about you but I don't accept mediocrity
in my life in any way, and especially not in my sexual
and romantic skills and neither should you.
Now for today's question...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Sir,
You write: "When you go in for the kiss, cup her face in
both of your hands so that your palms are gently cradling
her jaw line and your thumbs are just in front of cheek
bones."
This seems really awkward, Normally, I like to move in
with my mouth then slowly get my hands involved. ( I
don't mean feel her up, I mean more along the lines of
what you describe -- I just introduce it later in the
process). How do I go about your way without it being
really awkward?
Thanks
Cahn
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Cahn,
Well I think we understood you weren't going to feel her
up right on the initial kiss but thanks for the
clarification none the less.
First of all I'm not sure exactly what you mean when you
say you feel awkward. But from what you do say it appears
that the order in which you bring your hands into play
lies at the root of that awkwardness.
The simplest way is when your ready to go in for her
first kiss...
Look her deeply in the eyes, allow your hands to slowly
but gently touch the side of her cheek you can use one
or both hands.
I find for first kisses the two hand approach works much
better. Cup the back of her head or contour her jaw line
with the palm of your hand.
Your thumb can rest either just in front of the ear or
on the cheekbone just below her eye or any point in
between. While maintaining eye contact, gently draw her
lips to yours. Allow your eyes to close as your lips
gently touch.
That's the quick lesson.
For First kisses, I always use my palms to face technique.
Why?
Because It Just Plain Works More Reliably Powerfully and
Consistently Than Any Other Method of First Kissing I Have
Tried!
I discovered many years ago that when you really want to
get a woman's romantic desires clicked into over drive
the fastest way to do it is by touching her anywhere on
her face while your kissing her.
Now pay attention here folks.
Notice I did not say her sexual drives!
Understand that kissing certain areas of her body will
signal her to become romantically turned on, and
consistently more passionate, while others will actually
stimulate and accelerate her sexual drives and desires.
The first thing you want to do with any woman, (at least
in the world of David) is get her romantic muscles flexing
and her passions enflamed... Why?
Because her sexual drives inevitably follow her romantic
drives!
Guys this is important...
If you can't create that physical/emotional connection or
chemistry necessary to turn her emotional sparks into a
roaring flame, your likely to throw too much fuel on the
fire to fast. The result...
All progress stops and the fire goes out!
Have you ever tried to fan a small flame in order to make
it grow and accidently blew it out?
In your effort to feed it more oxygen you actually gave it
too much fuel too fast and poof!
Out goes the flame!
That's what I'm talking about when it comes to enflaming
a woman's passions.
Your kiss creates the tiny flame i.e. the connection
(everything is clicking for her inside) the touch on the
face adds just enough fuel at just the right pace to cause
that romantic spark to grow into a passionate flame.
Once the passion fire is really burning, if you know where
to go you can actually transition to other parts of her
body that acts as sexual accelerators, which means that
you are actually transitioning her from a predominantly
emotional sense of arousal to equally physical sensation
of arousal.
You see the key to mind blowing sex is not how big your
penis is or how good looking you are or even how long you
can last in the sack...
The key is... How Deeply Aroused You Can Get Her!
You will discover that the root of many of the obstacles
you will face in your journey to sexual mastery will
ultimately come down to this one simple element --
Lack of Sexual Arousal!
The more aroused your partner becomes the more receptive
she is to all manner of sexual acts, stimulations, and
intensities!
Don't take my word for it!
Prove it to yourself... master the art of building sexual
tension taught in my Secret Orgasm Tips course and she
will think your the greatest lover she's ever had or will
have the first night your together!
Click Here To Download Now!
For all of you who wrote in with some really great
questions be on the look out for more answers and
awe inspiring techniques and concepts that will turn
you from Joe average lover into a sexual superstar
practically overnight.
All the Best!
David Van Arrick
Hello my care free and courageous connoisseurs
of creative kissing and countless carnal pleasures,
Tis I! Your buddy, the one and only David Van Arrick!
I'm back to share some more outstanding insights
into the world of all things erotic, carnal and
ultimately orgasmic.
Now the interesting thing you will discover as we
journey together on the forbidden path to true sexual
mastery is that the path itself has many seemingly
unrelated tangents and offshoots -- twists and turns
that sometimes seem to have no direct relation to the
forbidden arts of sexual mastery as most folks would
understand them but have faith and pay attention
because the connections often become excitingly
immediately apparent as time goes on...
However...
Today's installment is not one of those cases!
In fact far from being obscure this particular post
concerns one of my very favorite topics --- Kissing!
If your kissing game sucks, you're probably not going
to get any further in the course of making love to a
woman because many many women judge how good a lover
you are by the way you kiss her the very first time.
Although many women are more than willing to kiss you
a second time in the hopes you just had an off moment,
the bottom line is if your kiss can't make her toes
curl, buckle her knees and have her heart pounding
and racing in her chest like a hyper-active jackhammer,
your probably going to find yourself immediately shoved
into the "love-dud" category or the Joe-average lover
slot to say the least.
That's not a good place to be, believe me.
Well I don't know about you but I don't accept mediocrity
in my life in any way, and especially not in my sexual
and romantic skills and neither should you.
Now for today's question...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Sir,
You write: "When you go in for the kiss, cup her face in
both of your hands so that your palms are gently cradling
her jaw line and your thumbs are just in front of cheek
bones."
This seems really awkward, Normally, I like to move in
with my mouth then slowly get my hands involved. ( I
don't mean feel her up, I mean more along the lines of
what you describe -- I just introduce it later in the
process). How do I go about your way without it being
really awkward?
Thanks
Cahn
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Cahn,
Well I think we understood you weren't going to feel her
up right on the initial kiss but thanks for the
clarification none the less.
First of all I'm not sure exactly what you mean when you
say you feel awkward. But from what you do say it appears
that the order in which you bring your hands into play
lies at the root of that awkwardness.
The simplest way is when your ready to go in for her
first kiss...
Look her deeply in the eyes, allow your hands to slowly
but gently touch the side of her cheek you can use one
or both hands.
I find for first kisses the two hand approach works much
better. Cup the back of her head or contour her jaw line
with the palm of your hand.
Your thumb can rest either just in front of the ear or
on the cheekbone just below her eye or any point in
between. While maintaining eye contact, gently draw her
lips to yours. Allow your eyes to close as your lips
gently touch.
That's the quick lesson.
For First kisses, I always use my palms to face technique.
Why?
Because It Just Plain Works More Reliably Powerfully and
Consistently Than Any Other Method of First Kissing I Have
Tried!
I discovered many years ago that when you really want to
get a woman's romantic desires clicked into over drive
the fastest way to do it is by touching her anywhere on
her face while your kissing her.
Now pay attention here folks.
Notice I did not say her sexual drives!
Understand that kissing certain areas of her body will
signal her to become romantically turned on, and
consistently more passionate, while others will actually
stimulate and accelerate her sexual drives and desires.
The first thing you want to do with any woman, (at least
in the world of David) is get her romantic muscles flexing
and her passions enflamed... Why?
Because her sexual drives inevitably follow her romantic
drives!
Guys this is important...
If you can't create that physical/emotional connection or
chemistry necessary to turn her emotional sparks into a
roaring flame, your likely to throw too much fuel on the
fire to fast. The result...
All progress stops and the fire goes out!
Have you ever tried to fan a small flame in order to make
it grow and accidently blew it out?
In your effort to feed it more oxygen you actually gave it
too much fuel too fast and poof!
Out goes the flame!
That's what I'm talking about when it comes to enflaming
a woman's passions.
Your kiss creates the tiny flame i.e. the connection
(everything is clicking for her inside) the touch on the
face adds just enough fuel at just the right pace to cause
that romantic spark to grow into a passionate flame.
Once the passion fire is really burning, if you know where
to go you can actually transition to other parts of her
body that acts as sexual accelerators, which means that
you are actually transitioning her from a predominantly
emotional sense of arousal to equally physical sensation
of arousal.
You see the key to mind blowing sex is not how big your
penis is or how good looking you are or even how long you
can last in the sack...
The key is... How Deeply Aroused You Can Get Her!
You will discover that the root of many of the obstacles
you will face in your journey to sexual mastery will
ultimately come down to this one simple element --
Lack of Sexual Arousal!
The more aroused your partner becomes the more receptive
she is to all manner of sexual acts, stimulations, and
intensities!
Don't take my word for it!
Prove it to yourself... master the art of building sexual
tension taught in my Secret Orgasm Tips course and she
will think your the greatest lover she's ever had or will
have the first night your together!
Click Here To Download Now!
For all of you who wrote in with some really great
questions be on the look out for more answers and
awe inspiring techniques and concepts that will turn
you from Joe average lover into a sexual superstar
practically overnight.
All the Best!
David Van Arrick
How To Give Your Woman 5 to 10 Orgasms In One Night!
Our latest question is from James who writes
"Can all women have multiple orgasms? Mine says
she is satisfied after one clitoral climax and is too
sensitive for any more touching."
July 2005 -
James
Dear James,
In my experience all women are capable of multiple
orgasms and continuous orgasms, (there is a difference
by the way). Now if your woman says she is satisfied
with one (and you believe her), that would more than
likely be the end of the story.
However many women who "say" they are satisfied with
just one orgasm have trained themselves to be that way
and this is usually for one of several reasons.
A)The first orgasm is intense and she gets too sensitive
afterwards; as in your case.
B) She doesn't believe she can have multiples because
she has never had them before.
C) Every so often there are control issues involved that
may take a little more skill and finesse to overcome.
In this newsletter we will deal directly with your particular
situation. First of all every woman (barring physiological
or psychological issues) is capable of achieving multiple
orgasms beyond a shadow of a doubt just as all women can
have an ejaculatory orgasm!
The challenge becomes -- how do you get her there?
When your woman gets too sensitive (which happens with
every woman by the way) all you really have to do is cut the
intensity of your stimulation to about one tenth of what you
did to get her to orgasm in the first place.
(This does take some finesse and practice by the way but
it's well the time it takes to learn this sexually awe inspiring
skill.)
This is where techniques like the magic touch and the ten keys
to maximum sexual arousal taught in my book absolutely must
come into play.
Remember I said in book one that orgasms make a woman
more responsive to sexual stimulation and that's true, but like
men, women also have a "refractory period" between orgasms
during which time the same level and type of stimulation will
cause "over-stimulation and discomfort to her?"
In order to counteract this effect you can do one or all of the
following:
A) Decrease the amount of pressure you're using (the one tenth rule
is a good place to start). Magic Touching will help you get beyond
this barrier to multiple orgasms by training you to have a more
sensitive and delicate touch that lets you skyrocket her sexual
desire and arousal without have to press or stroke nearly as hard.
Using too much pressure is a common mistake when fingering or using
your tongue and the training exercises in "Secret Orgasm Tips" will
help you tremendously. They have made a huge difference in my love
making skills and they will do the same for you!
B) Switch the type of stimulation you are using along with the
pressure. If you're using an up and down stroke change to a circular
stroke. If you are using a two or three finger split, switch to
palming or giving oral, etc. Anything that changes the stimulation
and delivered lightly and gradually getting stronger in proportion
to her ability to enjoy it will help you get her to her next
climax.
Pay Attention To Her Responses... Always! Her Body Will Tell
You Everything You Need to Know!
C) Target another orgasm generating spot i.e. G- spot, deep spot
etc (this is where chaining comes in really handy.
D) Resume maximum sexual arousal using the "Secret Orgasm
Tips" until her refractory period is over and go for her next
orgasm.
Using the techniques in Secret Orgasm Tips can significantly
shorten the female orgasm refractory period and have her ready to
climax again in minutes.
If you haven't already downloaded your personal copy of "Secret
Orgasm Tips," what are you waiting for? These are the absolute
BEST secrets for taking you from "Joe average lover" to "Sexual
Super Star" in minimum time!
But don't take my word for it! Download your copy now!
It's safe, secure, and most of all - discrete! Just click the
Link below and you can have your copy in five minutes...
(Insert Affiliate Link Here)Click Here To Download Now!
These are just some of the irresistible sex secrets I use regularly
to give women an average of FIVE to TEN orgasms an hour
(my record is actually much higher) but for the average woman,
giving her five to ten orgasms in just one hour will make you
king in her eyes, have her begging you for more and more sex
every single day, cause her to do anything she can to please
you in every conceivable way and make you feel like an
unstoppable sex god in the process!
Well that's all for today ladies and gentlemen.
Be sure to give treat yourselves and your lovers to greater sex
than ever before learn the secret and sometimes forbidden sex
techniques that will take you from Sexual Zero to Sexual Hero in no
time flat! Download your copy of Secret Orgasm Tips! Today!
All the Best!
Sincerely
David Van Arrick
aka "The Master"
"Can all women have multiple orgasms? Mine says
she is satisfied after one clitoral climax and is too
sensitive for any more touching."
July 2005 -
James
Dear James,
In my experience all women are capable of multiple
orgasms and continuous orgasms, (there is a difference
by the way). Now if your woman says she is satisfied
with one (and you believe her), that would more than
likely be the end of the story.
However many women who "say" they are satisfied with
just one orgasm have trained themselves to be that way
and this is usually for one of several reasons.
A)The first orgasm is intense and she gets too sensitive
afterwards; as in your case.
B) She doesn't believe she can have multiples because
she has never had them before.
C) Every so often there are control issues involved that
may take a little more skill and finesse to overcome.
In this newsletter we will deal directly with your particular
situation. First of all every woman (barring physiological
or psychological issues) is capable of achieving multiple
orgasms beyond a shadow of a doubt just as all women can
have an ejaculatory orgasm!
The challenge becomes -- how do you get her there?
When your woman gets too sensitive (which happens with
every woman by the way) all you really have to do is cut the
intensity of your stimulation to about one tenth of what you
did to get her to orgasm in the first place.
(This does take some finesse and practice by the way but
it's well the time it takes to learn this sexually awe inspiring
skill.)
This is where techniques like the magic touch and the ten keys
to maximum sexual arousal taught in my book absolutely must
come into play.
Remember I said in book one that orgasms make a woman
more responsive to sexual stimulation and that's true, but like
men, women also have a "refractory period" between orgasms
during which time the same level and type of stimulation will
cause "over-stimulation and discomfort to her?"
In order to counteract this effect you can do one or all of the
following:
A) Decrease the amount of pressure you're using (the one tenth rule
is a good place to start). Magic Touching will help you get beyond
this barrier to multiple orgasms by training you to have a more
sensitive and delicate touch that lets you skyrocket her sexual
desire and arousal without have to press or stroke nearly as hard.
Using too much pressure is a common mistake when fingering or using
your tongue and the training exercises in "Secret Orgasm Tips" will
help you tremendously. They have made a huge difference in my love
making skills and they will do the same for you!
B) Switch the type of stimulation you are using along with the
pressure. If you're using an up and down stroke change to a circular
stroke. If you are using a two or three finger split, switch to
palming or giving oral, etc. Anything that changes the stimulation
and delivered lightly and gradually getting stronger in proportion
to her ability to enjoy it will help you get her to her next
climax.
Pay Attention To Her Responses... Always! Her Body Will Tell
You Everything You Need to Know!
C) Target another orgasm generating spot i.e. G- spot, deep spot
etc (this is where chaining comes in really handy.
D) Resume maximum sexual arousal using the "Secret Orgasm
Tips" until her refractory period is over and go for her next
orgasm.
Using the techniques in Secret Orgasm Tips can significantly
shorten the female orgasm refractory period and have her ready to
climax again in minutes.
If you haven't already downloaded your personal copy of "Secret
Orgasm Tips," what are you waiting for? These are the absolute
BEST secrets for taking you from "Joe average lover" to "Sexual
Super Star" in minimum time!
But don't take my word for it! Download your copy now!
It's safe, secure, and most of all - discrete! Just click the
Link below and you can have your copy in five minutes...
(Insert Affiliate Link Here)Click Here To Download Now!
These are just some of the irresistible sex secrets I use regularly
to give women an average of FIVE to TEN orgasms an hour
(my record is actually much higher) but for the average woman,
giving her five to ten orgasms in just one hour will make you
king in her eyes, have her begging you for more and more sex
every single day, cause her to do anything she can to please
you in every conceivable way and make you feel like an
unstoppable sex god in the process!
Well that's all for today ladies and gentlemen.
Be sure to give treat yourselves and your lovers to greater sex
than ever before learn the secret and sometimes forbidden sex
techniques that will take you from Sexual Zero to Sexual Hero in no
time flat! Download your copy of Secret Orgasm Tips! Today!
All the Best!
Sincerely
David Van Arrick
aka "The Master"
How To Turn A Fridgid, Unresponsive Woman Into Your Sex Slave.
By: David Van Arrick
One of the most gratifying parts of the work
that I do is helping people to overcome
obstacles that they may face in their sexual
lives.
I do this kind of work on a number of levels.
As a hypnotist, a practitioner of Oriental
Medicine, as a sex coach and ultimately as a
giver of information and dispelling many of
the myths and erroneous concepts that keep us
sexually in the stone ages...
(now don't get me wrong some people are really
turned on by being dragged around by their
hair... but that another topic completely.)
Perhaps the most immediate and global means
that I have to help as many folks out there
as possible is simply my ability to be able
to communicate with each and every one of you
out there.
Man or woman, all of us can benefit from
having an expanded understanding of our
sexuality and just how much joy, excitement,
pleasure, and fulfillment is possible when
you apply the secrets I am teaching you.
Today's question is from Doc, who writes...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear David,
Are there women totally incapable of orgasm?
Especially the ejaculatory. Is there an age
limit for women for orgasm?
MY RESPONSE:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Are there women totally incapable of orgasming?
To this question I have to qualify my answer.
If she is a healthy biologically sound woman
with all her parts intact, then yes! I believe
she is more than capable of orgasm.
Now, depending on her experiences growing up,
her past sexual history etc. there could be
some barriers to orgasm that may be in place.
I will share one such experience that ultimately
resulted in my beautiful paramour having the most
orgasmic experiences of her life, whereas prior
to our getting together she could never orgasm
with a partner before.
(I know, I'm THAT darn good. =)
I met this young woman through the INTERNET. We
exchanged pics and emails and finally met in
person.
It didn't take long for us to escalate our
relationship to the bedroom.
I noticed that she really, really loved sex, but
when she got close to orgasm she would pull back
or stop.
It took me a while to gain her trust about this
but she finally confided to me that she had been
molested when she was young and after that she
was never able to allow herself to have an orgasm
with a male partner.
Well at that point, being the compassionate soul
that I am, I made it my mission to free her from
her non-orgasmic prison.
It took a couple weeks, but finally one night I
looked her in the eyes and told her I wanted to
give her an orgasm.
She looked uncertain but my foreplay skills are
rather formidable, and her G-spot was primed for
pleasure!
(How to do this is explained in detail in my
book "Ten Keys to Maximum Sexual Arousal!")
After I had gotten her aroused to the necessary
level using the "Ten Keys," I began using my
special technique for creating the one orgasm
women can not fake.
I knew it would take a while without using the
rule of three, but I wanted to be sure she
wouldn't be holding herself back and then lie
to me about having an orgasm.
Women faking orgasms is a huge problem for us
men, and most women fail to recognize that faking
an orgasm only serves to perpetuate the less
than adequate sexual skills of their male lovers.
But because women are so bent on not hurting their
man's feelings, they fake orgasms, thus giving men
the wrong kind of feedback...
In other words, men think what they are doing is
working when it really isn't, and because they
think its working, they keep doing it...
It's a vicious cycle that... oops! I am off topic
again... sorry!
Back to the topic at hand...
Fifteen minutes after I began using my special
techniques, Elsie suddenly finds herself on my
bed wriggling in full-blown ecstasy as her body
is being rocked by one ultra powerful orgasmic
shockwave after another.
By the time it was over (or at least mostly over)
all she could do was lay there in a fetal position
soaking in a huge puddle of her own female ejaculate
totally and completely swept away and overwhelmed
by the tsunami-like force of her own orgasm!
Now, in Elsie's case, it took some time for me to
dissolve her sexual barriers and gain her trust
to the point where I could bring her to orgasm
and she would allow herself to be brought to
climax.
Most women that you meet will not have such hard
core issues, although they may have many
pre-conceived notions, myths and misconceptions
about what is possible for them based on the
experiences they have had with other lovers and
the books they have read.
The single biggest key for helping your woman
achieve orgasm is mastering the art of sexual
arousal.
Master this one area of sexual expertise and
women will beat a path to your door!
Are there any age limits to women achieving an
orgasm?
In my experience, there is no upper age limit for
a woman to experience an orgasm.
My personal belief is that women in their 80's
and 90's would still love to have good orgasms
and the more, the merrier.
For all I know, they may still enjoy them through
masturbation or from their husbands or significant
others. The onset of menopause only signifies the
end of childbearing years, not the end of a woman's
ability to be sexually responsive or experience
and enjoy orgasm.
In fact, I have gotten letters from folks in their
eighties thanking me for sharing my techniques
and how by using them they have significantly
improved their sex life after 50 years of marriage.
The simple truth is unless your heart won't take
the pressure (check with your doctors) there simply
is no age at which a healthy human being can not
have and enjoy an orgasm.
You're never too old to enjoy sex and you're never
too old to begin to sharpen and improve the sexual
skills that will give you countless hours of pleasure
and full and complete control of your sexual destiny.
All you have to do is choose to do the work I teach
in my course Secret Orgasm Tips.
If you don't have this course yet, you can download
it here...
Click Here To Download Your Copy Today!
Until next time, may your orgasms be multiple and
your sex life never be the same again!
All the Best!
Sincerely,
David Van Arrick
One of the most gratifying parts of the work
that I do is helping people to overcome
obstacles that they may face in their sexual
lives.
I do this kind of work on a number of levels.
As a hypnotist, a practitioner of Oriental
Medicine, as a sex coach and ultimately as a
giver of information and dispelling many of
the myths and erroneous concepts that keep us
sexually in the stone ages...
(now don't get me wrong some people are really
turned on by being dragged around by their
hair... but that another topic completely.)
Perhaps the most immediate and global means
that I have to help as many folks out there
as possible is simply my ability to be able
to communicate with each and every one of you
out there.
Man or woman, all of us can benefit from
having an expanded understanding of our
sexuality and just how much joy, excitement,
pleasure, and fulfillment is possible when
you apply the secrets I am teaching you.
Today's question is from Doc, who writes...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear David,
Are there women totally incapable of orgasm?
Especially the ejaculatory. Is there an age
limit for women for orgasm?
MY RESPONSE:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Are there women totally incapable of orgasming?
To this question I have to qualify my answer.
If she is a healthy biologically sound woman
with all her parts intact, then yes! I believe
she is more than capable of orgasm.
Now, depending on her experiences growing up,
her past sexual history etc. there could be
some barriers to orgasm that may be in place.
I will share one such experience that ultimately
resulted in my beautiful paramour having the most
orgasmic experiences of her life, whereas prior
to our getting together she could never orgasm
with a partner before.
(I know, I'm THAT darn good. =)
I met this young woman through the INTERNET. We
exchanged pics and emails and finally met in
person.
It didn't take long for us to escalate our
relationship to the bedroom.
I noticed that she really, really loved sex, but
when she got close to orgasm she would pull back
or stop.
It took me a while to gain her trust about this
but she finally confided to me that she had been
molested when she was young and after that she
was never able to allow herself to have an orgasm
with a male partner.
Well at that point, being the compassionate soul
that I am, I made it my mission to free her from
her non-orgasmic prison.
It took a couple weeks, but finally one night I
looked her in the eyes and told her I wanted to
give her an orgasm.
She looked uncertain but my foreplay skills are
rather formidable, and her G-spot was primed for
pleasure!
(How to do this is explained in detail in my
book "Ten Keys to Maximum Sexual Arousal!")
After I had gotten her aroused to the necessary
level using the "Ten Keys," I began using my
special technique for creating the one orgasm
women can not fake.
I knew it would take a while without using the
rule of three, but I wanted to be sure she
wouldn't be holding herself back and then lie
to me about having an orgasm.
Women faking orgasms is a huge problem for us
men, and most women fail to recognize that faking
an orgasm only serves to perpetuate the less
than adequate sexual skills of their male lovers.
But because women are so bent on not hurting their
man's feelings, they fake orgasms, thus giving men
the wrong kind of feedback...
In other words, men think what they are doing is
working when it really isn't, and because they
think its working, they keep doing it...
It's a vicious cycle that... oops! I am off topic
again... sorry!
Back to the topic at hand...
Fifteen minutes after I began using my special
techniques, Elsie suddenly finds herself on my
bed wriggling in full-blown ecstasy as her body
is being rocked by one ultra powerful orgasmic
shockwave after another.
By the time it was over (or at least mostly over)
all she could do was lay there in a fetal position
soaking in a huge puddle of her own female ejaculate
totally and completely swept away and overwhelmed
by the tsunami-like force of her own orgasm!
Now, in Elsie's case, it took some time for me to
dissolve her sexual barriers and gain her trust
to the point where I could bring her to orgasm
and she would allow herself to be brought to
climax.
Most women that you meet will not have such hard
core issues, although they may have many
pre-conceived notions, myths and misconceptions
about what is possible for them based on the
experiences they have had with other lovers and
the books they have read.
The single biggest key for helping your woman
achieve orgasm is mastering the art of sexual
arousal.
Master this one area of sexual expertise and
women will beat a path to your door!
Are there any age limits to women achieving an
orgasm?
In my experience, there is no upper age limit for
a woman to experience an orgasm.
My personal belief is that women in their 80's
and 90's would still love to have good orgasms
and the more, the merrier.
For all I know, they may still enjoy them through
masturbation or from their husbands or significant
others. The onset of menopause only signifies the
end of childbearing years, not the end of a woman's
ability to be sexually responsive or experience
and enjoy orgasm.
In fact, I have gotten letters from folks in their
eighties thanking me for sharing my techniques
and how by using them they have significantly
improved their sex life after 50 years of marriage.
The simple truth is unless your heart won't take
the pressure (check with your doctors) there simply
is no age at which a healthy human being can not
have and enjoy an orgasm.
You're never too old to enjoy sex and you're never
too old to begin to sharpen and improve the sexual
skills that will give you countless hours of pleasure
and full and complete control of your sexual destiny.
All you have to do is choose to do the work I teach
in my course Secret Orgasm Tips.
If you don't have this course yet, you can download
it here...
Click Here To Download Your Copy Today!
Until next time, may your orgasms be multiple and
your sex life never be the same again!
All the Best!
Sincerely,
David Van Arrick
500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
You can learn more by reading this material than it takes most people dozens of years (and often dozens of partners) to learn.
Visit 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
Oprah Love Experts Reveals The Secrets That Couples Are Using To Quickly and Easily Increase The Passion and Intimacy of Their Lovemaking ...
500 Lovemaking Tips Book Review
One of the biggest challenges couples in long-term relationships face is trying to keep their lovemaking red, hot and steamy. Early on in a relationship, the passion and newness of your lovemaking is always unforgettable; but, as that initial magic fades, it becomes harder to make things exciting again.
So is “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by acclaimed author Michael Webb the right book to bring back the fire? Here’s my take on it.
The book begins with a general foundation and understanding on lovemaking, briefly discussing topics like bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance for lovemaking, and interesting truths about Kama Sutra. It also contains a lubrication guide and 16 fully illustrated lovemaking positions in the back of the book. These are all nice touches, but the main attraction and bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.
I have to say, I really LOVE that you can open the book, pick a page and have between 8 10 easy-to-read tips ready to inspire or use right away. No need to read through dozens of long-winded paragraphs. Everything is formatted neatly and is very easy on the eyes. This is a big plus when you’re just about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you want some ideas.
So, what about the actual tips themselves?
This book is a treasure chest of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. They range from oral sex tips for both men and women, to games you can play to make foreplay more fun (although I would have loved to see more games). It also has tips to make intercourse feel better and unique, ways to surprise your partner like “coming out of the shower with just a towel and playing with your wife,” and even some cool places to make love that most people would never have thought of. While I didn’t find all the tips exciting (which was expected), I found more than enough that appealed to me.
The tips are all mixed together, which can get a little overwhelming. I recommend you skim through the book a few times rather than trying to read the whole thing in one sitting.
This book also lives up to its promise of not containing any raunchy, degrading, immoral or perverted ideas that so many lovemaking books seem to have.
In conclusion, while not all the tips in the book amazed me and I would have been nice to see some more ‘games’, it’s still THE most complete book of tips and ideas on improving lovemaking I’ve ever read. Nothing else comes close. All in all, I found it very enjoyable to read and use :) So if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again or even if you just want some tips for more pleasure, then I highly recommend this book for you.
For more information go to: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
How To Find The G-Spot and Techniques To Drive Your Lady Wild
Did you know that women can have several different types of orgasms? That’s right. Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the G-spot. But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on everything you need to know…
1. How to find the G-spot
First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) You'll know when you've found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.
2. How should you stimulate it?
While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea. Why? Because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.
3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spot
In most cases, women need to have their clitoris stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once it's fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady. Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto the G-spot.
4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spot
To really stimulate the G-spot, you'll need to be in a position that gives you great easy access towork your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your lady lies on her back while you lie next to her, using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Actually, if you want even more passion and excitement, try changing from one position to another over the course of your stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure it.
5. How to stimulatethe G-spot with this technique
The motion you want to use is the "come over here" gesture, using your fingers. Keep in min dthat the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.
6. How to tell if she’s enjoying it
First of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.7.
The missing piece to a powerful orgasmDid you know that prolonged foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in their sexual experience. The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pullout whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
1. How to find the G-spot
First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) You'll know when you've found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.
2. How should you stimulate it?
While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea. Why? Because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.
3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spot
In most cases, women need to have their clitoris stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once it's fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady. Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto the G-spot.
4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spot
To really stimulate the G-spot, you'll need to be in a position that gives you great easy access towork your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your lady lies on her back while you lie next to her, using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Actually, if you want even more passion and excitement, try changing from one position to another over the course of your stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure it.
5. How to stimulatethe G-spot with this technique
The motion you want to use is the "come over here" gesture, using your fingers. Keep in min dthat the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.
6. How to tell if she’s enjoying it
First of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.7.
The missing piece to a powerful orgasmDid you know that prolonged foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in their sexual experience. The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pullout whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
100 Sex Games for Couples
100 Sex Games for Couples-Oprah love expert reveals the 100 sex games that couples are using to quickly and easily increase the passion and intimacy of their lovemaking..
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100 Sex Games Book Review
One of the biggest challenges in a long-term relationship is trying to keep things exciting in the bedroom.
Whether it’s work, the kids or the other 1000 things you need to do, dedicating time to keep the fire burning in your sex life is often easier said than done. Let’s face it, we all have busy lives. Therefore, it makes sense to find ideas that can be used again and again in your lovemaking repertoire.
Lo and behold: “100 Sex Games for Couples.” Sex games really are a great way to keep things fresh and original and often have a longer reusable value than most techniques and positions.
But does this book by Michael Webb really deliver? Let’s find out :D
To begin, I really liked the introduction of the book and how it talked about intimacy being spiritual, emotional and physical. It really sets the tone for the whole book and emphasizes that these games are really about “making love,” not having sex.
So what about the games themselves? Actually, I was surprised to find there were only 33 sex games in the book. Instead, the other 67 games are variations of the original 33 games, changing the rules of the games to create different versions. While this was a little disappointing at first, after reading the book, I became quite excited to try many of the games myself. There is more than enough in there to keep things exciting for a long time. And of course, some games will keep you entertained longer than others.
However, on the flipside, you won’t find many of these games anywhere else. In that sense, they truly are original and unique. I was really pleased with the level of imagination and creativity when it comes to these games.
You’ll find exciting games such as: a guessing game (one of my personal favorites), a night of passion that starts elsewhere, a game where stories become your drive for pleasure, a card game with a twist, a great game to choose your bedroom clothing, and many others involving food, communicating, touching and sharing intimate moments.
All in all, the book is well worth the asking price, considering it could be the very thing that brings you closer together as a couple!
So the verdict? I LOVE it and I definitely recommend “100 Sex Games For Couples” to any couple that wants to bring back the fire and add that magic touch.
For more information visit: 100 Sex Games for Couples
Get Your Copy
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100 Sex Games Book Review
One of the biggest challenges in a long-term relationship is trying to keep things exciting in the bedroom.
Whether it’s work, the kids or the other 1000 things you need to do, dedicating time to keep the fire burning in your sex life is often easier said than done. Let’s face it, we all have busy lives. Therefore, it makes sense to find ideas that can be used again and again in your lovemaking repertoire.
Lo and behold: “100 Sex Games for Couples.” Sex games really are a great way to keep things fresh and original and often have a longer reusable value than most techniques and positions.
But does this book by Michael Webb really deliver? Let’s find out :D
To begin, I really liked the introduction of the book and how it talked about intimacy being spiritual, emotional and physical. It really sets the tone for the whole book and emphasizes that these games are really about “making love,” not having sex.
So what about the games themselves? Actually, I was surprised to find there were only 33 sex games in the book. Instead, the other 67 games are variations of the original 33 games, changing the rules of the games to create different versions. While this was a little disappointing at first, after reading the book, I became quite excited to try many of the games myself. There is more than enough in there to keep things exciting for a long time. And of course, some games will keep you entertained longer than others.
However, on the flipside, you won’t find many of these games anywhere else. In that sense, they truly are original and unique. I was really pleased with the level of imagination and creativity when it comes to these games.
You’ll find exciting games such as: a guessing game (one of my personal favorites), a night of passion that starts elsewhere, a game where stories become your drive for pleasure, a card game with a twist, a great game to choose your bedroom clothing, and many others involving food, communicating, touching and sharing intimate moments.
All in all, the book is well worth the asking price, considering it could be the very thing that brings you closer together as a couple!
So the verdict? I LOVE it and I definitely recommend “100 Sex Games For Couples” to any couple that wants to bring back the fire and add that magic touch.
For more information visit: 100 Sex Games for Couples
3 Ways To Intensify Your Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking
3 Ways To Intensify Your Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking
By Michael Webb
Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by
having prolonged foreplay?
It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're
about to learn three ways to add new levels of
passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will
bring you and your partner even closer. So here we
go!
1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY
An extended period of foreplay amplifies your
sexual experience because it gives you time to
build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work?
It's just human nature. Think about a big event in
your life.
Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie
launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10
times better.
Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next
time you spend some time under the sheets, make a
conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run
your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly
into their eyes.
The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the
greater the experience for both of you. And if you
want to feel the magic even more then...
2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A "TWIST"
Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about
JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip,
technique or even location. While these things
would definitely spice things up, you can make your
experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a
little added creativity.
For example: Why not learn a new techniquepack a
picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day.
And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like
these helps to bring back the magic that made you
fall in love in the first place.
3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES
Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the
best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire
lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely
fun and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they
actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same
time too!
Because when you play a sex game you…
1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and
interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do
And even while some games only consist of familiar
tips and moves, you'll be using them in new
scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.
Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create
your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a
sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just
want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t
matter. Simply get excited and unleash some
creativity!
So if you want to create a magical experience,
remember there’s no better way than playful game
that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying
new things.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of
"100 Sex Games For Couples," a book full of ways to
spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:
http://YOURIDHERE.100games.hop.clickbank.net
By Michael Webb
Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by
having prolonged foreplay?
It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're
about to learn three ways to add new levels of
passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will
bring you and your partner even closer. So here we
go!
1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY
An extended period of foreplay amplifies your
sexual experience because it gives you time to
build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work?
It's just human nature. Think about a big event in
your life.
Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie
launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10
times better.
Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next
time you spend some time under the sheets, make a
conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run
your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly
into their eyes.
The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the
greater the experience for both of you. And if you
want to feel the magic even more then...
2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A "TWIST"
Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about
JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip,
technique or even location. While these things
would definitely spice things up, you can make your
experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a
little added creativity.
For example: Why not learn a new techniquepack a
picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day.
And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like
these helps to bring back the magic that made you
fall in love in the first place.
3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES
Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the
best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire
lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely
fun and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they
actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same
time too!
Because when you play a sex game you…
1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and
interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do
And even while some games only consist of familiar
tips and moves, you'll be using them in new
scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.
Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create
your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a
sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just
want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t
matter. Simply get excited and unleash some
creativity!
So if you want to create a magical experience,
remember there’s no better way than playful game
that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying
new things.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of
"100 Sex Games For Couples," a book full of ways to
spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:
http://YOURIDHERE.100games.hop.clickbank.net
10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:
1. Send them a unique gift at work - Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. Become kids again - If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.
3. Fun with water - On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.
4. A massage with a twist - Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. Bring back childhood memories - Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.
6. Stare at the clouds - Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.
7. Go for a walk on the beach - Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
8. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s night - Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.
9. Show you’re grateful for your partner - Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."
10. Spice up your lovemaking - Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.
To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:
1. Send them a unique gift at work - Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. Become kids again - If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.
3. Fun with water - On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.
4. A massage with a twist - Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. Bring back childhood memories - Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.
6. Stare at the clouds - Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.
7. Go for a walk on the beach - Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
8. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s night - Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.
9. Show you’re grateful for your partner - Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."
10. Spice up your lovemaking - Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.
To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
5 Tips For Better Lovemaking
Here are five really simple ways to make your lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate… (Even starting tonight)
1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones
I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.
While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.
Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.
2. Set a romantic mood
People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.
Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.
3. Give them a sensual massage
Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.
Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the sheets” where a massage of another kind can take place.
And no, you don’t need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.
4. Please your partner with more oral sex
Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and women.
LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straight away when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation.
GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue.
5. Constantly explore and try new things
If I could only give you one piece of advice for better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.
Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a game.
Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your partner feel that really counts.
By dedicating time to finding new things, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.
To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips
1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones
I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.
While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.
Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.
2. Set a romantic mood
People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.
Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.
3. Give them a sensual massage
Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.
Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the sheets” where a massage of another kind can take place.
And no, you don’t need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.
4. Please your partner with more oral sex
Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and women.
LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straight away when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation.
GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue.
5. Constantly explore and try new things
If I could only give you one piece of advice for better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.
Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a game.
Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your partner feel that really counts.
By dedicating time to finding new things, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.
To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips
7 Lovemaking Mistakes That Couples Make and How To Avoid Them
Did you know that people who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling?
Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?
Mistake #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new thingsHave you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think? Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something new, too, but they're just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it up as you are. And you don't need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That's nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to bring variety to your passionate play that aren't crude or dangerous and that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.
Mistake #2: Trying to convince the partner to make loveIf your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sexalmost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their body releases the chemical 'adrenaline' into the bloodstream. This chemical is what gives you the energy to make love. So here's how to arouse them the right way. Yes, even if they're tired.Ladies: Want to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 –10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He'll like that.Lads: Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest 'turn-ons' for women. Looking in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal, too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild. But don't rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual kisses.Mistake #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse soonerPeople in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?
That's right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying. So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.) If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The more you pull back and push forward, the more they'll want it. And the more intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten this anticipation, too.Mistake #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking betterWhen sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly makelovemaking even less fulfilling.Why? Because you don't want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first fully discover how to please all their spouses' body parts before introducing other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.Mistake #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourseMen often feel "unmanly" if they can't satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand is that a large number of women can't achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
It’s true.
Over the years, I've seen couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their love lives, and I'd like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems.Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?
Mistake #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new thingsHave you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think? Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something new, too, but they're just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it up as you are. And you don't need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That's nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to bring variety to your passionate play that aren't crude or dangerous and that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.
Mistake #2: Trying to convince the partner to make loveIf your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sexalmost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their body releases the chemical 'adrenaline' into the bloodstream. This chemical is what gives you the energy to make love. So here's how to arouse them the right way. Yes, even if they're tired.Ladies: Want to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 –10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He'll like that.Lads: Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest 'turn-ons' for women. Looking in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal, too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild. But don't rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual kisses.Mistake #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse soonerPeople in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?
That's right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying. So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.) If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The more you pull back and push forward, the more they'll want it. And the more intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten this anticipation, too.Mistake #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking betterWhen sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly makelovemaking even less fulfilling.Why? Because you don't want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first fully discover how to please all their spouses' body parts before introducing other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.Mistake #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourseMen often feel "unmanly" if they can't satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand is that a large number of women can't achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.
Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there's no need to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).
Mistake #6: Trying to “finish” at the same timeSimultaneous orgasms are quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus completely on the woman’s needs first. Hold off from the positions you find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater chance of both climaxing.Mistake #7: Sticking to a “set routine” too often You know the drill. You take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes, the routine is over. Sound familiar?No matter how fantastic lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years. And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect your relationship.The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.That's the secret.In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot,steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love and even make love more often. About the Author:Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
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The Best Positions For Mind-Blowing Orgasms
Is there such thing as “the best” lovemaking position? Actually there is!However, the best positions for men and women are different. Also, did you know that by moving even one inch in any direction while in these positions, you can dramatically change the feeling and intensity of a position? Take your time to find the best angles for the both of you, while using these positions.The Best Position For Women To ClimaxThe reverse missionary is identical to the traditional missionary except that she is on top. This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot. Since you typically want the women to orgasm first, this would be one of your first positions and then move to a position where the guy has full control for his orgasm. You can vary your leg positions by both of you spreading your legs, or by alternating the one who has them spread and the one who has them together.The Best Position For Men To OrgasmPractically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It is great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows you to fondle her breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. Even she can touch her clitoris in this position. She kneels before you (some women enjoy it more if their head is down on a pillow) and you enter her from behind. The main benefit for the guy is a view of her beautiful bottom and being able to see the action, while getting incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking PositionsOf course, books show dozens, if not hundreds, of sexual positions, but the reality is that there are maybe only eight basic positions, with slight variations for each. So what happens when you've tried all eight positions to death? Let's face it––in the end, lovemaking is generally always the same. That’s why you should explore ALL aspects of sexuality about each other. I don't mean anything freaky here. I just mean cultivate an adventurous spirit. Turn foreplay into a game. Add a prop or two. Try a new place. How about starting off with a plate of fruits? There are literally HUNDREDS of ways you can make your lovemaking more exciting, passionate and fulfilling long-term, rather than just trying new positions.About the Author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
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How To Find The G-Spot and Techniques To Drive Your Lady Wild
Did you know that women can have several different types of orgasms? That’s right. Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the G-spot. But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on everything you need to know…1. How to find the G-spotFirst of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) You'll know when you've found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.2. How should you stimulate it?While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea. Why? Because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spotIn most cases, women need to have their clitoris stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once it's fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady. Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto the G-spot.4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spotTo really stimulate the G-spot, you'll need to be in a position that gives you great easy access towork your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your lady lies on her back while you lie next to her, using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Actually, if you want even more passion and excitement, try changing from one position to another over the course of your stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure it. 5. How to stimulatethe G-spot with this techniqueThe motion you want to use is the "come over here" gesture, using your fingers. Keep in min dthat the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.
6. How to tell if she’s enjoying itFirst of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.7. The missing piece to a powerful orgasmDid you know that prolonged foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in their sexual experience. The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pullout whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.About the Author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
6. How to tell if she’s enjoying itFirst of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.7. The missing piece to a powerful orgasmDid you know that prolonged foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in their sexual experience. The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pullout whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.About the Author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
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